By Jamie R Mather
Many of us feel that as we grow older, our chances of finding a
soul mate grow slim. But what if the opposite were true? How does age
really figure into the search for that special someone?
For answers, we turned to our talented love psychics. Every one of them agreed that how old we are does affect the quest for romantic bliss-but not in the way you might think! Each decade presents a unique set of spiritual challenges and opportunities that affect the search for love. Perhaps the most surprising thing is that as we enter middle-age and beyond, our chances of finding a soul mate are better than ever.
20s
This decade is the Wild West of relationships. You are waking up to yourself and the world at large. Everything is bursting with possibilities. As the process of self-discovery accelerates-new people, independence, career options-you find yourself in a state of psychic flux. Your love life is often a reflection of this. One minute you're enveloped in a burst of passion, and the next you can't remember why you were so fascinated.
This is a natural, inevitable process. As you develop spiritually and personally, you are also learning about your soul mate-even if you don't realize it. Through trial and error, you are coming to grips with what you really want out of a relationship.
You may get lucky and meet your soul mate in this decade. You may think you've met your soul mate, only to realize years later that it's not the perfect match you thought it was. You may also be reluctant to commit, due to that twenty-something feeling that time is on your side. The important thing is that you follow your intuition, listen to your heart, and act with bravado. Those who date a variety of different types have the best chance of hitting the jackpot. You don't have to be a clairsentient medium-as long as you trust the feeling of love and continue the work of self-discovery, you and your soul mate are coming closer together.
30s
Pressure's on! In this decade, you tend to lose the feeling that you have all the time in the world. Marriage, children, and the meaning of life suddenly figure into your calculations. Why haven't you found your soul mate yet? Are you jinxed? Are you trying hard enough?
Trying too hard is more like it! It seems counter-intuitive, but finding love in your 30s is all about playing it cool and keeping your wits about you. After all, your 20s have served you well. Whatever events have transpired (even the ones you'd rather forget), you know more about yourself and your soul mate, wherever he or she may be.
The most important thing is to keep evolving spiritually. This inner-movement may seem to be all about you, but it's also bringing your beloved closer. The moment you find yourself panicking or putting too much pressure on your quest for the perfect romance, come back to your own spiritual and psychic growth. Gifted psychics can be a big help during this decade. Remember-the feeling that time is running out is an illusion. You and your soul mate are already connected on a spiritual level.
40s
By now, you've probably been through a long-term relationship or two. You're wiser, stronger, and clearer than ever about what does and doesn't work. Shouldn't this make it easy to finally land 'the big one'?
Well, yes and no. Your past relationships may be lingering in your psyche, affecting the way you view potential lovers. You may be too quick to enter a relationship, for fear of continuing on alone. You may also be carrying the past in your physical appearance!
Being a magnet for red-hot romance in your 40s is a question of clearing space, bringing in fresh inspiration, and being open to the unexpected. Gifted psychics can help you find the courage to move on from past relationships. Yoga and meditation can give you the perspective you need to avoid jumping in too quickly. A change in diet and a natural makeover can give you the physical radiance you need to restore confidence. The key is to highlight the wisdom you have gained, yet do away with unhealthy fixed ideas. You may know what you want, but that doesn't mean your soul mate won't surprise you.
50s
Think your dating days are over? Think your chances of finding a soul mate have lapsed? Think again! You're just as likely to make the connection you've always wanted in your 50s, as you were in any other decade before.
The difference is, you probably aren't interested in the old ways of meeting new people. A bar or club may be the last place you want to go. You may also find yourself fully engaged in your career, with precious little time to spare for chasing romance.
Being practical can go a long way in this decade. Make lists, set goals, and work on your love life every day. Online dating has high success rates amongst people in their 50s. Lightening is also known to strike at volunteer or hobby groups. Focus on doing what makes you happy, and have the adventures you've always wanted to have. Chances are, your soul mate will appear when you are already feeling joyful.
60s and beyond
You've been around the block-you may even have had a spouse pass on to the other side. Meeting new people is a different kettle of fish, and you find yourself wondering, 'where do I begin?'
Now more than ever, trying new things and following your passions is the way to go. How about enrolling in a night class? What about splurging on that dream vacation, rather than holding off until you meet that perfect someone to go with? If you want something extraordinary, find ways to leave the ordinary behind. New love is inherently youthful and fresh, no matter how old you are. It's just a matter of tuning in to that vibration and being open.
Don't be afraid to lean on others for support. One of our gifted love psychics, or a clairsentient medium, can help you find the inspiration you need. Falling in love with someone, even at this age, is going to be a new experience. It won't be like any relationship you've had before. So hold your breath, jump in, and get ready for an adventure!
For answers, we turned to our talented love psychics. Every one of them agreed that how old we are does affect the quest for romantic bliss-but not in the way you might think! Each decade presents a unique set of spiritual challenges and opportunities that affect the search for love. Perhaps the most surprising thing is that as we enter middle-age and beyond, our chances of finding a soul mate are better than ever.
20s
This decade is the Wild West of relationships. You are waking up to yourself and the world at large. Everything is bursting with possibilities. As the process of self-discovery accelerates-new people, independence, career options-you find yourself in a state of psychic flux. Your love life is often a reflection of this. One minute you're enveloped in a burst of passion, and the next you can't remember why you were so fascinated.
This is a natural, inevitable process. As you develop spiritually and personally, you are also learning about your soul mate-even if you don't realize it. Through trial and error, you are coming to grips with what you really want out of a relationship.
You may get lucky and meet your soul mate in this decade. You may think you've met your soul mate, only to realize years later that it's not the perfect match you thought it was. You may also be reluctant to commit, due to that twenty-something feeling that time is on your side. The important thing is that you follow your intuition, listen to your heart, and act with bravado. Those who date a variety of different types have the best chance of hitting the jackpot. You don't have to be a clairsentient medium-as long as you trust the feeling of love and continue the work of self-discovery, you and your soul mate are coming closer together.
30s
Pressure's on! In this decade, you tend to lose the feeling that you have all the time in the world. Marriage, children, and the meaning of life suddenly figure into your calculations. Why haven't you found your soul mate yet? Are you jinxed? Are you trying hard enough?
Trying too hard is more like it! It seems counter-intuitive, but finding love in your 30s is all about playing it cool and keeping your wits about you. After all, your 20s have served you well. Whatever events have transpired (even the ones you'd rather forget), you know more about yourself and your soul mate, wherever he or she may be.
The most important thing is to keep evolving spiritually. This inner-movement may seem to be all about you, but it's also bringing your beloved closer. The moment you find yourself panicking or putting too much pressure on your quest for the perfect romance, come back to your own spiritual and psychic growth. Gifted psychics can be a big help during this decade. Remember-the feeling that time is running out is an illusion. You and your soul mate are already connected on a spiritual level.
40s
By now, you've probably been through a long-term relationship or two. You're wiser, stronger, and clearer than ever about what does and doesn't work. Shouldn't this make it easy to finally land 'the big one'?
Well, yes and no. Your past relationships may be lingering in your psyche, affecting the way you view potential lovers. You may be too quick to enter a relationship, for fear of continuing on alone. You may also be carrying the past in your physical appearance!
Being a magnet for red-hot romance in your 40s is a question of clearing space, bringing in fresh inspiration, and being open to the unexpected. Gifted psychics can help you find the courage to move on from past relationships. Yoga and meditation can give you the perspective you need to avoid jumping in too quickly. A change in diet and a natural makeover can give you the physical radiance you need to restore confidence. The key is to highlight the wisdom you have gained, yet do away with unhealthy fixed ideas. You may know what you want, but that doesn't mean your soul mate won't surprise you.
50s
Think your dating days are over? Think your chances of finding a soul mate have lapsed? Think again! You're just as likely to make the connection you've always wanted in your 50s, as you were in any other decade before.
The difference is, you probably aren't interested in the old ways of meeting new people. A bar or club may be the last place you want to go. You may also find yourself fully engaged in your career, with precious little time to spare for chasing romance.
Being practical can go a long way in this decade. Make lists, set goals, and work on your love life every day. Online dating has high success rates amongst people in their 50s. Lightening is also known to strike at volunteer or hobby groups. Focus on doing what makes you happy, and have the adventures you've always wanted to have. Chances are, your soul mate will appear when you are already feeling joyful.
60s and beyond
You've been around the block-you may even have had a spouse pass on to the other side. Meeting new people is a different kettle of fish, and you find yourself wondering, 'where do I begin?'
Now more than ever, trying new things and following your passions is the way to go. How about enrolling in a night class? What about splurging on that dream vacation, rather than holding off until you meet that perfect someone to go with? If you want something extraordinary, find ways to leave the ordinary behind. New love is inherently youthful and fresh, no matter how old you are. It's just a matter of tuning in to that vibration and being open.
Don't be afraid to lean on others for support. One of our gifted love psychics, or a clairsentient medium, can help you find the inspiration you need. Falling in love with someone, even at this age, is going to be a new experience. It won't be like any relationship you've had before. So hold your breath, jump in, and get ready for an adventure!
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